I'm confused here. If a competent amp person installed a three prong cord on my amp and then told me I should solder it instead of bolting it like he did... he wouldn't be very competent... would he?
All that is necessary is a good ground connection with the (usually) green center prong wire to the chassis. That can be obtained with a nut and bolt connection or soldering.
With the chassis grounded to the center prong, then the "death cap" doesn't make any difference - the chassis will always be connected to ground, so removing it is not strictly necessary.
Besides... if you ever play in a place without grounded wiring, then the proper polarity can still be obtained through the polarity switch.