It all depends on what you pan to use the amp for. If it is guitar, then I would say to stick with the tube rectifier as it will give some sag that works well with guitar. If you plan to play bass through it, then a solid state rectifier would be a better choice as it gives the impression of a tighter low end and a more immediate reproduction of the sound. Another choice is to use a Weber Copper Cap, which is a solid state rectifier replacement module that emulates the voltage drop and sag of the tube rectifier. You can see them at
www.tedweber.com.
One problem with going with a solid state rectifier is that the voltages go up in the amp as a result, and it may go up high enough to stress the upper voltage ratings of the filter caps in the amp. You won't know for sure until you get the amp and you can experiment with it.
The 6AN8 works as the phase inverter in the amp. The power tubes work as a push/pull pair, and while one is pulling, the other is pushing....kind of like a 2 cylinder engine with one piston going one way while the other goes the other way. The signal gets it's phase reversed at the phase inverter so that it will work for each power tube appropriately. There is no replacement for the 6AN8. There are some tubes that are similar, but I would just stick with the 6AN8. Any of the other similar tubes would require some rewiring of the socket and some voltage adjustments to work, and they would also change the sound. Besides, good NOS 6AN8's are pretty cheap. Get a couple extras and you'll be good for the life of the amp. The 12AX7 is for the gain stages in the preamp and will affect the tone the most.
Personally, I like the JJ KT88 in my Sunns too. I've tried Tung-Sol 6550's and they sound good too, but for the price, I'd go with the JJ's every day.